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Peace

Be happiest by just being. Experience the now, don’t label it or associate your feelings with them. Just be.

If you disassociate yourself from situations, you stop letting them control your emotions. You just take them as is. Good experiences make you happy, since you’ll take in the positive energy, and bad experiences don’t make you feel anything.

This way, you don’t let bad things affect you. Like rude people throughout the day, or someone cutting you off while driving. They’re just external things that happened.

Here’s to not letting external forces define our happiness, and choosing to feeling good,
Oleg

[...] You create them. They’re not a big deal and they’re not you. [...]

so by the time you read this,
my Bravest beloved Son
your highs will be lows
your ebbs will be in flow
all you have to do is be Brave enough
to hold on and ENJOY the ride

Radhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
may Amma’s heartlite SHINE on this satvvic patch of cyber sky

good to see you here more often lately

i find it really really helps. makes you realise it’s not as real as it feels.

i know it can be tough to view feelings and thoughts as a choice but it is a choice. it’s the choice to want all your compulsions and automatic judgements more than you want freedom. you want approval, you want to be safe, you want to be one – all those wants are a choice. you can choose to make them real or to let them go.

up to you

thanks for the tweet and stumble!

keep well karen!
alex

i respect your opinion too

i think you’re misinterpreting what i mean as neutral. or maybe (probably) i didn’t make myself fully clear and understandable.

i don’t mean that you don’t feel anything at all.

that’s almost the opposite of what i mean

i mean that you don’t CREATE additional feelings. you don’t create noise.

when i say neutral i mean that you don’t create feelings about it, you’re impartial, indifferent, unaffected. you still feel whatever you feel but you don’t create any additional feelings.

you feel that deep connectedness to life, you feel your being instead of little comments about inconsequential events.

you actually feel more. you experience life more deeply when it’s not covered by all your mind-made emotions about the situation.

robots don’t feel anything, what i mean by neutral is full experience but without your opinions and emotional knee-jerk reactions as the result of thinking layered over that experience.

hope that clears it up

ya heard

thanks for your thoughts

keep well and in touch
alex – unleash reality

I respect your opinion but….

I dont really agree with being neutral. How can you experience something – a situation let’s say if you dont feel anything at all? Like a robot? How can you remember a situation if you really did not feel anything at that time..

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I love your idea of “transparency” to prohibit negative things becoming trapped within us. And I agree with you that we tag a thing that is neutral by the thoughts and stories we create about it. Some of us have trouble embracing the idea of feelings or thoughts being a “choice” we make, simply because the stories we tell and the reactions we already choose are often habits of long-standing.

You’ve been tweeted and stumbled!

Karen